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I wonder how your guests are selected.
It seems you have three guest attendees when you get married, but I'm curious as to how they're selected. This playthrough, Lisbet from Markarth, Narfi from Ivarstead and Iona the Riften Housecarl were chosen. I had done Narfi's quest 20 levels before getting married, and was declared Thane of Riften 10 levels prior, but the Lisbet quest was completed 5 levels ago. Is it random based on rep? 24.156.216.144 01:16, 1 December 2011 (UTC)
- I think the guest are random people from quests you have completed. One of my guest was that Redguard blacksmith from Whiterun after I delivered a sword to her dad. --Sencilia 13:09, 1 December 2011 (UTC)
- I think she's an Imperial, not a Redguard. Presuming you mean Adrianne? Vyc Ðarkshådøw 09:15, 23 June 2012 (UTC)
- Don't think it matters what level you won their trust so long as you did in fact win their trust. I don't know if it has anything to do with who you marry--like when I married Aela, my three guests were two members of The Circle plus Lydia, all from Whiterun. Could just be chance, though. 192.83.228.118 03:57, 3 December 2011 (UTC)
- I got the Jarl from Morthal in mine. It's not just followers that can show up. Daedalus Echelon 16:40, 5 December 2011 (UTC)
- I think it has to do with disposition. For some reason, Rolff Stone-fist showed up at my wedding. He was my only guest. He hates Dark Elves. I beat him up. I was a Dark Elf marrying a Dark Elf. It was hilarious. Aresvallis 01:51, 8 December 2011 (UTC)
- I got the Jarl from Morthal in mine. It's not just followers that can show up. Daedalus Echelon 16:40, 5 December 2011 (UTC)
(←) Actually, it is based on disposition, i got 3 of my best friends at the wedding, i was marrying camilla valerius, i think that's her name, from riverwood, her brother was there, as well as Adrriene avenicci, the blacksmith from whiterun and sven, all of which i had helped in the past and were good friends Emzi43 19:57, 6 January 2012 (UTC)
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- I've only ever had one, sometimes two guests at my weddings(not counting my follower). Consider yourself lucky that 3 of your friends even care you're getting married. — Unsigned comment by VycDarkshadow (talk • contribs) at 22:34 on 8 February 2012
- Your spouses disposition with people might affect this also, once i married a dunmer from windhelm and two other dunmer from windhlem showed up, who i'd never spoken to as well as some of my friends. Andil the mage 20:26, 6 January 2012 (UTC)
- Yes this seems right; I married Shahvee and the other Argonian from the docks showed up, even though I'd only spoken with him a few times. --174.6.51.17 23:08, 26 January 2012 (UTC)
- This seems reasonable to me as well. I was determined to marry Idgrod but couldn't seem to make it work, so before forcing it through the console (and not knowing if I was missing anything) I decided that I would have a "normal" marriage. I chose Senna (cute and flirty, hell yeah!) and moved her into Breezehome. In attendance on my side was Jordis (Solitude Housecarl) and that was it. On her side was no one. Our marriage was fine, except a)I still wanted Idgrod and b)you can't ever get Lovers Comfort with Senna because you have to first sleep in her bed at her house to trigger it... and there are no beds in the Dibella Chapel. So I used the set of console commands to annul our marriage, (removes everyone from the appropriate factions and resets the marriage quest). She left the house and returned to the chapel as if we'd never married but obviously kept the high relationship rank. Next I went and married Idgrod using the console to add her to the marriage faction. Again, normal wedding, except that in attendance was Jordis AND Senna! (yes I found it amusing that my ex-wife showed up to my wedding, especially her sarcastic "I'm so haaaaapy for the both of you") and over on Idgrods side was her mother (Jarl of Morthal) and a couple other people from Morthal. So it seems to me that there must be something going on with regards to disposition. 24.70.80.224 00:39, 20 January 2012 (UTC)
- Well now, that's interesting...although I hate to think what that means about my own wedding. I married Vilkas and reset several times trying to get Farkas to show up for the occasion, but no dice. --184.43.67.178 06:11, 8 March 2012 (UTC)
- This seems reasonable to me as well. I was determined to marry Idgrod but couldn't seem to make it work, so before forcing it through the console (and not knowing if I was missing anything) I decided that I would have a "normal" marriage. I chose Senna (cute and flirty, hell yeah!) and moved her into Breezehome. In attendance on my side was Jordis (Solitude Housecarl) and that was it. On her side was no one. Our marriage was fine, except a)I still wanted Idgrod and b)you can't ever get Lovers Comfort with Senna because you have to first sleep in her bed at her house to trigger it... and there are no beds in the Dibella Chapel. So I used the set of console commands to annul our marriage, (removes everyone from the appropriate factions and resets the marriage quest). She left the house and returned to the chapel as if we'd never married but obviously kept the high relationship rank. Next I went and married Idgrod using the console to add her to the marriage faction. Again, normal wedding, except that in attendance was Jordis AND Senna! (yes I found it amusing that my ex-wife showed up to my wedding, especially her sarcastic "I'm so haaaaapy for the both of you") and over on Idgrods side was her mother (Jarl of Morthal) and a couple other people from Morthal. So it seems to me that there must be something going on with regards to disposition. 24.70.80.224 00:39, 20 January 2012 (UTC)
- Yes this seems right; I married Shahvee and the other Argonian from the docks showed up, even though I'd only spoken with him a few times. --174.6.51.17 23:08, 26 January 2012 (UTC)
Mine was to Ysolda and was attended by Mjoll, three of my Housecarls and Mikael. (71.17.29.254 19:00, 4 September 2012 (EDT))
Homecooked Meal bug
My spouse no longer gives me homecooked meals. The dialogue option isn't even there anymore. I was getting them for about 4 or 5 days and then it just stopped. Perhaps I complained too often about the taste. ;) Anyone else getting this bug? Foubister 12:21, 7 December 2011 (UTC)
- Did you sell one to your spouse? that seems to stop them from giving you them. (Eddie The Head 12:23, 7 December 2011 (UTC))
- Also, initiating conversation with your spouse when s/he would normally have the option and having a Homecooked Meal in your inventory will disable the option as well. Torinir 15:58, 7 December 2011 (UTC)
- Not true, I've had several homecooked meals in my inventory and still get the option from aela. — Unsigned comment by 72.241.244.102 (talk) at 07:23 on 8 December 2011
- I can confirm having multiple homecooked meals on you doesn't prevent you from getting more. I am not getting the option anymore for the meal. Wife is Ysolda and was living in Breezehome. I wanted to see what she did day to day if we moved to her house. She didn't run the imaginary store anymore nor did she give me a cut of the action once day so I moved her back into Breezehome. Now her store is working but no more food option. Anyone have a fix for this? Like a quest ID or something to get the dialogue back? 206.251.12.233 20:42, 8 December 2011 (UTC)
- Hmmm, could be the selling of the meals to the spouse that does it. I've got a hard save from just before asking for marriage. I'll test it out.Foubister 21:10, 8 December 2011 (UTC)
- Ok, tested it out on two different characters, a follower and a non-follower. Got married, said we'd live at my house, got a meal, waited (takes 25 hours to get a new meal), got another one, lather, rinse, repeat. I didn't sell any of the meals to anyone and both times I got a total of eight meals before they stopped giving me any more. I even tried waiting 50 hours between meals (to see if I'd get two meals, only got one) and they stopped giving after eight meals. So the number of days isn't the key. It looks like it's the number of meals given. Foubister 09:28, 9 December 2011 (UTC)
- Now this is just bizarre. I tested again, this time selling back each meal to my spouse, and recieved more than eight meals. For now, I'm going to remove that statement on the page as it's clear it's not true. Foubister 16:37, 14 December 2011 (UTC)
- Ok, tested it out on two different characters, a follower and a non-follower. Got married, said we'd live at my house, got a meal, waited (takes 25 hours to get a new meal), got another one, lather, rinse, repeat. I didn't sell any of the meals to anyone and both times I got a total of eight meals before they stopped giving me any more. I even tried waiting 50 hours between meals (to see if I'd get two meals, only got one) and they stopped giving after eight meals. So the number of days isn't the key. It looks like it's the number of meals given. Foubister 09:28, 9 December 2011 (UTC)
- Hmmm, could be the selling of the meals to the spouse that does it. I've got a hard save from just before asking for marriage. I'll test it out.Foubister 21:10, 8 December 2011 (UTC)
- I can confirm having multiple homecooked meals on you doesn't prevent you from getting more. I am not getting the option anymore for the meal. Wife is Ysolda and was living in Breezehome. I wanted to see what she did day to day if we moved to her house. She didn't run the imaginary store anymore nor did she give me a cut of the action once day so I moved her back into Breezehome. Now her store is working but no more food option. Anyone have a fix for this? Like a quest ID or something to get the dialogue back? 206.251.12.233 20:42, 8 December 2011 (UTC)
- Not true, I've had several homecooked meals in my inventory and still get the option from aela. — Unsigned comment by 72.241.244.102 (talk) at 07:23 on 8 December 2011
- Also, initiating conversation with your spouse when s/he would normally have the option and having a Homecooked Meal in your inventory will disable the option as well. Torinir 15:58, 7 December 2011 (UTC)
(←) I noticed that while I had the beastblood (was not currently in werewolf state, but was still technically a werewolf) Ysolda would not give me any meals. As soon as I purified myself, she started giving me meals again. I'm not sure this is the case for other spouses (I imagine Aela wouldn't have a problem with your beastblood) but it's worth checking on other characters to see if it's not just a coincidence. Alphabetface 03:59, 18 January 2012 (UTC)
- I am getting homecooked meals from Shahvee in Whiterun despite having the beastblood (I haven't transformed since before we were married, though). --174.6.51.17 23:10, 26 January 2012 (UTC)
- Actually, there may be some connection to meals and the beastblood. I have Jenassa as a wife and I'm pretty sure she stopped cooking for me right around the time when I cleansed myself of lycanthropy. --75.42.114.251 00:35, 4 February 2012 (UTC)
- Argh, this is frustrating! My husband Balimund won't cook for me anymore after making me two meals! I wonder if it has to do with the fact I still had a meal in my inventory but reading the remarks here doesn't assure me. I married him when I had the beast blood and after six months of game time and curing myself of lycantropy, he still won't make me a meal! It got to the point I eyed him suspiciously as he hung around Honeyside with Iona. Not wanting him to be around her, I sent him last night to Breezehome :P He still won't cook for me in Whiterun though, and he still won't give me Lover's Comfort, just Well Rested. I don't want to just be Well Rested! Anyone have any suggestions? --Alkorri 13:21, 8 February 2012 (UTC)
- Jordis the Sword-Maiden has never had a dialog to offer a homecooked meal. — Unsigned comment by 99.104.225.115 (talk) at 17:48 on 11 February 2012
- Jordis did make me several homecooked meals (Xbox), but then stopped cooking for me as well. — Unsigned comment by 66.25.152.134 (talk) at 22:18 on 22 February 2012
- Jordis the Sword-Maiden has never had a dialog to offer a homecooked meal. — Unsigned comment by 99.104.225.115 (talk) at 17:48 on 11 February 2012
- Argh, this is frustrating! My husband Balimund won't cook for me anymore after making me two meals! I wonder if it has to do with the fact I still had a meal in my inventory but reading the remarks here doesn't assure me. I married him when I had the beast blood and after six months of game time and curing myself of lycantropy, he still won't make me a meal! It got to the point I eyed him suspiciously as he hung around Honeyside with Iona. Not wanting him to be around her, I sent him last night to Breezehome :P He still won't cook for me in Whiterun though, and he still won't give me Lover's Comfort, just Well Rested. I don't want to just be Well Rested! Anyone have any suggestions? --Alkorri 13:21, 8 February 2012 (UTC)
- Actually, there may be some connection to meals and the beastblood. I have Jenassa as a wife and I'm pretty sure she stopped cooking for me right around the time when I cleansed myself of lycanthropy. --75.42.114.251 00:35, 4 February 2012 (UTC)
(←) I cannot get homecooked meals from the spouse of one of my characters (Marcurio). However, I found that I have the benefits for the homecooked meal constantly active and listed in Active Effects. It says that it has eight or nine minutes remaining, but never runs out. I assume this is the reason that I no longer have the dialogue from that spouse. I'd be interested to see if others who are experiencing this bug also have constant effects listed in their menu.— Unsigned comment by 67.182.44.225 (talk) at 23:39 on 1 March 2012 (UTC)
- Vilkas stopped making homecooked meals for me while we were on a quest together and I asked him to do something illegal. We came home, and while everything else was normal, he stopped offering to cook for me. I thought maybe it was because I'd asked him to do something that was against his moral values. We are both cleansed of beastblood, and have been since just after we got married, so I'm not sure it has anything to do with the beastblood. I'd love to know why this isn't working anymore, so if anyone has any ideas... I was married to Marcurio in my last game, and I never had that happen. — Unsigned comment by 75.88.132.228 (talk) at 01:50 on 17 March 2012
- Also married Aela, have beast blood, moved to many houses, reloads and saves still NO FOOD! lol What's the deal?Hellmutt 16:49, 9 April 2012 (UTC)
- in my case I think the bug was triggered after I became a werewolf - now I have a permanent "homecooked meal" effect (check your magic effects) & my spouse won't make me another meal. I was able to remove the effect (player.removespell 000f5ff8) but that still didn't reset the dialog - tried divorcing & remarrying same follower, divorcing & marrying different follower, still can't trigger dialog to reset - and the homecooked meal effect will reappear, stuck w/9 mins remaining. ugh. perhaps the homecooked meal effect was active when I became a werewolf, or maybe when I did the ritual to cure my lycanthropy. all I can say is, now the meal effect is permanent, and the dialog to ask for another meal is gone. fwiw, my spouse is also my house jarl - not sure if that's significant. — Unsigned comment by 72.42.165.13 (talk) at 23:40 on 18 April 2012
- Also married Aela, have beast blood, moved to many houses, reloads and saves still NO FOOD! lol What's the deal?Hellmutt 16:49, 9 April 2012 (UTC)
Spouses Taking Stored Items
On Xbox version, I married Benor and moved him into Breezehome. I had previous items stored in various locations around the house. Upon him becoming a merchant, all of the items disappeared, and were only accessible via his Sale option. The only items that were not taken were stored in the bookshelf. He only offered the items at full price; no Speechcraft modifier. The only way to get the items back was to buy them, or kill him. Has anyone else experienced this issue? If so, is there a work-around? I prefer keeping spouses confined to Breezehome because of its convenient location; and that was the first time I've stored items in the home.--24.22.119.14 15:11, 18 January 2012 (UTC)
- I've read elsewhere about this happening, I'm on PC and I've not see it at all. Thanks for the heads up though! Also, I laughed at your above statement "I prefer keeping spouses confined [to a] conveneint location... " :P 24.70.80.224 01:00, 20 January 2012 (UTC)
- It's not 100% of the time. Moved Ysolda into Breezehome, had items stored everywhere, and they are all present and accounted for. If it matters (though I doubt that it does), the marriage is F/F. I wonder what might have caused it? Bensherman01 05:58, 22 January 2012 (UTC)
- I'm on the xbox version also, but I have never had the problem-- though I married Farkas with one character and Vilkas with another. It has also not happened to me in Hjerim in Windheim when I married Marcurio. I also only used the trunk in the bedroom to store items before I married in Breezehome. Could be the location on all items, the npc you married, or the Breezehome itself? --98.211.32.28 00:26, 28 January 2012 (UTC)
- if had it to on the ps3 version. I've married mjoll the lioness, but my stored items aren't even available to buy back. they've been vanished. — Unsigned comment by 86.84.212.173 (talk) at 18:25 on 29 February 2012
- Can con firm this happened on ps3 version — Unsigned comment by 121.212.136.23 (talk) at 09:14 on 5 March 2012
- Also confirmed on PS3 version. — Unsigned comment by 69.117.141.127 (talk) at 04:30 on 17 June 2012
- Sounds like a morality issue. Benor has a morality of 0 so he'll commit any crime you ask him to. Though if hirelings, which also have a morality of 0, aren't stealing from players it may be a combination of 0 morality and Fight! Fight! objective. Makes me glad I sacrificed him.Artemis Entreri 17:58, 3 August 2012 (UTC)
- Also confirmed on PS3 version. — Unsigned comment by 69.117.141.127 (talk) at 04:30 on 17 June 2012
- Can con firm this happened on ps3 version — Unsigned comment by 121.212.136.23 (talk) at 09:14 on 5 March 2012
- if had it to on the ps3 version. I've married mjoll the lioness, but my stored items aren't even available to buy back. they've been vanished. — Unsigned comment by 86.84.212.173 (talk) at 18:25 on 29 February 2012
- I'm on the xbox version also, but I have never had the problem-- though I married Farkas with one character and Vilkas with another. It has also not happened to me in Hjerim in Windheim when I married Marcurio. I also only used the trunk in the bedroom to store items before I married in Breezehome. Could be the location on all items, the npc you married, or the Breezehome itself? --98.211.32.28 00:26, 28 January 2012 (UTC)
- It's not 100% of the time. Moved Ysolda into Breezehome, had items stored everywhere, and they are all present and accounted for. If it matters (though I doubt that it does), the marriage is F/F. I wonder what might have caused it? Bensherman01 05:58, 22 January 2012 (UTC)
Taarie is Bugged
I understand that this is common, and that Taarie is not the only subject to this bug, however, I will ask. On console (PS3/Xbox), if you are unable to marry a certain NPC, even after doing their quest, and being able to marry any other NPC as per normal, and trying 2 different Amulets of Mara, including the one given by Maramal, what should you do? — Unsigned comment by 87.201.184.51 (talk) at 13:17 on 8 March 2012
- I can tell you that using different Amulets of Mara won't affect it; any Amulet will work as long as you have spoken to Maramal about getting married. I have seen one report of a PS3 player who was eventually able to marry Taarie despite initially glitching, though, so all hope is not necessarily lost. He or she returned long after completing "Fit for a Jarl" and tried talking to her again with the Amulet on a whim, which worked much to their surprise. Best of luck to you; I really hope you're able to marry her someday. --184.43.21.32 01:52, 10 March 2012 (UTC)
- Taarie, I believe, is unique in the fact that simply performing her task doesn't sufficiently raise her disposition to be able to marry her. Investing in her shop is necessary too. Wolok gro-Barok 17:33, 2 April 2012 (UTC)
- What Wolok gro-Balok said. You need to have the investor perk d00d. — Unsigned comment by 76.226.34.246 (talk) at 02:05 on 4 May 2012
- Taarie, I believe, is unique in the fact that simply performing her task doesn't sufficiently raise her disposition to be able to marry her. Investing in her shop is necessary too. Wolok gro-Barok 17:33, 2 April 2012 (UTC)
Vilkas' property after marriage?
I married Vilkas, but his bed at Jorrvaskr is still tagged as (Owned). Is this a bug, or is it actually not his property? All of the objects in the room remained stealable as well. --184.43.21.32 16:24, 9 March 2012 (UTC)
- Did you make sure to choose the "Your place is fine" (or something to that effect) when speaking to him about where to live? Also, I don't believe the other items in the room are considered 'owned' by him regardless. ABCface◥ 13:43, 10 March 2012 (UTC)
- I did, and I also completed his "Purity" quest. No matter what I did, the bed remained tagged as (Owned). I've seen him sleeping there on multiple occasions, so I'm sure it's the right room. Even so, I double checked all the beds in the sleeping quarters, and no other bed lost its (Owned) status upon marrying Vilkas. --Silmina 01:16, 11 March 2012 (UTC)
- Once you're married, the Purity quest shouldn't be relevant in this case (though with bugs in this game, who knows). If the bed is considered Vilkas' owned property and you've agreed to live at his 'home' rather than your own, you should be able to sleep there. I'm gonna recheck this in-game as soon as I get the chance, as well as the beds for Farkas and Aela, just to be safe. ABCface◥ 02:53, 11 March 2012 (UTC)
- I married Vilkas just a few days ago and did "Your Place is fine". I followed him to see which bed he slept in and it was owned. I assumed this was because I was the new Harbinger. I did get the Lover's Comfort bonus sleeping for several hours in my bed (which used to be Kodlak's) in the Harbinger's room. Maeve 06:04, 11 March 2012 (UTC)
- That was my experience as well. Sleeping in one of the beds in the common room also gave me Lover's Comfort. --Silmina 07:00, 11 March 2012 (UTC)
- Since multiple people have reported this, I've added it as a confirmed bug on the article page. I have no experience in getting married (take that however you will), much less specifically to Vilkas, so can someone have a look at it and make sure that what I said makes sense. I was just paraphrasing what I read here. – Robin Hood↝talk 04:37, 5 April 2012 (UTC)
- That was my experience as well. Sleeping in one of the beds in the common room also gave me Lover's Comfort. --Silmina 07:00, 11 March 2012 (UTC)
- I married Vilkas just a few days ago and did "Your Place is fine". I followed him to see which bed he slept in and it was owned. I assumed this was because I was the new Harbinger. I did get the Lover's Comfort bonus sleeping for several hours in my bed (which used to be Kodlak's) in the Harbinger's room. Maeve 06:04, 11 March 2012 (UTC)
- Once you're married, the Purity quest shouldn't be relevant in this case (though with bugs in this game, who knows). If the bed is considered Vilkas' owned property and you've agreed to live at his 'home' rather than your own, you should be able to sleep there. I'm gonna recheck this in-game as soon as I get the chance, as well as the beds for Farkas and Aela, just to be safe. ABCface◥ 02:53, 11 March 2012 (UTC)
- I did, and I also completed his "Purity" quest. No matter what I did, the bed remained tagged as (Owned). I've seen him sleeping there on multiple occasions, so I'm sure it's the right room. Even so, I double checked all the beds in the sleeping quarters, and no other bed lost its (Owned) status upon marrying Vilkas. --Silmina 01:16, 11 March 2012 (UTC)
Resurrected Spouse will no longer be married to you?
I married Vilkas (who, by the way, is sweet) and took him on my quests. He was killed by a dragon and I resurrected him. He does not seem to be married to me anymore. The only "spouse" dialog option available to me is "what do you have for sale?". Prior to this, I had moved us to my house in Riften, Honeyside. To test it out, I slept while he was still following me and did not get the Lover's Comfort bonus (why I was taking him with me). When I resurrected him, I did not say "Follow me" and he headed to Whiterun; so it seems he lives there now. Also, he no longer greets me as "My Love". I tried the addfac 19809 1 and equipped the Amulet of Mara but there was no change. Maeve 06:26, 11 March 2012 (UTC)
- He is indeed ^_^ I'm playing the PS3 version so I can't try this myself, but you could try using the console command
resetquest RelationshipMarriageto undo the marriage, then re-marry him. Here's hoping, anyway ^^ --Silmina 06:56, 11 March 2012 (UTC)- Thanks. I just tried
resetquest RelationshipMarriageand nothing is changed. Before seeing your tip, I saw that you can check your relationship status withgetrelationshiprank playerafter selecting him. It came up Lover which I'm not sure if that means spouse or not. After resetting it still gave the same status of Lover. I think I'm going to have to load a previous save (hope I don't have to redo alot). Maeve 07:13, 11 March 2012 (UTC)- Okay, bottom line is that if I want to continue with Vilkas as a spouse I will have to load an earlier save. (I hate it when I get too confident and don't save frequently). I used
setrelationshiprank player valuewhere value is the rank value of 1, 2, 3, or 4. Then I usedgetrelationshiprank playerand found that 1=friend, 2=confidant, 3=ally, and 4=lover. I usedresetquest RelationshipMarriage,setrelationshiprank player 4,addfac 19809 1, and equipped Amulet of Mara. I hoped we would go through the dialog to get married, but nothing happened. He acts as he did before I became Harbinger except I can buy/sell items with him. I guess that means once your married you can't remarry and if your spouse dies and you resurrect him or her you aren't married to them either. Maeve 08:38, 11 March 2012 (UTC)- Final Note: I reloaded a previous save and made Vilkas immortal. I like stacking Lover's Comfort with Warrior Stone to gain experience faster. With your spouse fighting along side you, sleeping on bed rolls will give you Lover's Comfort bonus. Also, Vilkas doesn't get in the way most of the time. To make him immortal, I did 2 things, 1) made him essential using
setessential 1a694 1(must use BaseID vice RefID), then 2) gave him the Restoration Avoid Death perk usingprid 1a695followed byaddperk a3f64. It seems to be working. During a dragon fight he went to his knee and got up pretty quickly. Not sure how to check his skills and perks, but I think the Avoid Death got him back up right away. It took some digging around to get the proper codes and sequences, so I added this note to help others who want to make a follower immortal. Maeve 11:35, 11 March 2012 (UTC)- I've heard of people remarrying with console commands (there's even a mention of having done it earlier on this talk page), but I can't find details on how exactly to do it. Possibly setting his relationship rank to 4 instead of 3 was the problem? Either way, I'm glad you eventually found a solution to the problem. He really doesn't get in the way most of the time, unlike Farkas who kept charging in front of me XD --Silmina 16:45, 11 March 2012 (UTC)
- I'm glad someone else out there likes Vilkas as a spouse. BTW, I saw the notes above and tried them as well as tips from other webites. I think it is because I was married to him and thus could not fully reset him. One of the other wiki's said if you use
resurrect 1, your follower comes back as they were. The discussion was about losing the equipment you've given your follower before they died. But I thought possibly that may have kept the spouse status intact as well. Thanks for your help. Maeve 02:57, 12 March 2012 (UTC)
- I'm glad someone else out there likes Vilkas as a spouse. BTW, I saw the notes above and tried them as well as tips from other webites. I think it is because I was married to him and thus could not fully reset him. One of the other wiki's said if you use
- I've heard of people remarrying with console commands (there's even a mention of having done it earlier on this talk page), but I can't find details on how exactly to do it. Possibly setting his relationship rank to 4 instead of 3 was the problem? Either way, I'm glad you eventually found a solution to the problem. He really doesn't get in the way most of the time, unlike Farkas who kept charging in front of me XD --Silmina 16:45, 11 March 2012 (UTC)
- Final Note: I reloaded a previous save and made Vilkas immortal. I like stacking Lover's Comfort with Warrior Stone to gain experience faster. With your spouse fighting along side you, sleeping on bed rolls will give you Lover's Comfort bonus. Also, Vilkas doesn't get in the way most of the time. To make him immortal, I did 2 things, 1) made him essential using
- Okay, bottom line is that if I want to continue with Vilkas as a spouse I will have to load an earlier save. (I hate it when I get too confident and don't save frequently). I used
- Thanks. I just tried
Can someone help me about Maramal
i kind of killed maramal and i cant spawn him or anything else i need something to spawn him because i want to get married in skyrim i mean but i cant find a way to summon him or something like that
i need to speak with him about the marriege and side-quest can someone help
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please help — Unsigned comment by 95.42.154.123 (talk) on 13 March 2012
- Either do it through the console, or restart your game. Vyc Ðarkshådøw 09:14, 23 June 2012 (UTC)
Implications of saying "NO" at the wedding ceremony?
I think it would be appropriate to have a section or at least a bullet point on the implications of leaving your would-be spouse at the alter. Perhaps a couple of the new dialogues, and more importantly whether or not you'll be able to try to marry again (currently Maramal will not speak to me), and if so what will be requisite. — Unsigned comment by 23.17.150.233 (talk) at 18:00 on 16 March 2012
- Done. Hopefully that helps with people's curiosity about what happens if you fall through with the wedding. Helenaannevalentine 05:41, 11 April 2012 (UTC)
Living in the House I own
I married Derkeethus from Darkwater Crossing and after we got married, i told him i wanted us to live in my house in Riften. He said he would meet me there but he never gets there. i tried leaving the house, waiting an hour, and going back in, but nothing happened. what should i do?? — Unsigned comment by 70.234.161.32 (talk) on 20 March 2012
- This is in the Notes section on his NPC page: "Despite being able to live in a selected player home he will still run back to Darkwater Crossing each day. This results in him very rarely being at the player's home as all purchasable homes are quite a long distance away from Darkwater Crossing." There doesn't seem to be a fix for this, from what it sounds like. ABCface◥ 09:21, 27 March 2012 (UTC)
Marcurio
I married Marcurio and I we are ling at his house, The bee and barb. I have no idea where Im supposed to sleep. All the beds say they are owned. — Unsigned comment by 184.146.74.28 (talk) on 1 April 2012
- Marcurio doesn't own a bed. He owns... A bench. That's basically where he spends all his time when he's not with you; apparently he's an insomniac. Best bet is to move him into the house in Whiterun once you can afford it, as that's the cheapest house. (Interestingly, once you move him into your own house he'll sleep, but not at "normal" hours.) --90.197.64.93 23:26, 7 April 2012 (UTC)
Im lost!
I married vilkas of white run shortly after I completed the quest that allows me to. Last time I seen him, was at our 'wedding'. I've looked in the tomb, jorrvaskr, my house, breeze home. I've heard of the glitches with him.. But I wanna know how or where I could find him..? - shelby, June 5th 2012 — Unsigned comment by 68.43.216.25 (talk) at 22:23 on 5 June 2012
- Try using the command Moveto player (and his ID), I do it all the time with Farkas when I climb to the mountains where he's unable to follow me or accidentally point to the floor, saying "Wait here" instead of pointing to an item and saying "Pick it up" and after a few hours of gameplay I realize he's probably in some dungeons still waiting for me.
- Prid 0001A695
- Moveto player
- — Unsigned comment by 78.56.165.74 (talk) at 15:29 on 09 June 2012
Marrying the Companions
To marry them it says "Complete the Companions Questline" However, I married Farkas ASAP, just after running a couple of errands for the Companions and way before I was turned into a werewolf. Is it a mistake in the Wiki page or a bug? He was following me and I had the amulet of Mara and he was asking to marry me every 3 minutes, I was initially going for Vilkas, but he wouldn't even look at me — Unsigned comment by 78.56.165.74 (talk) at 15:36 on 9 June 2012
Visit Spouse's House bug
Sometimes, this quest will not complete, or in some cases even give a location marker. Does anyone know how to complete this through the console? I tried looking, but i can't find the solution in the console. Vyc Ðarkshådøw 09:12, 23 June 2012 (UTC)
- You could type in the command setstage.Refer to the section Targeted Commands,(I have no idea why it's listed there)to find out more.I hope this helps!--Skyrimplayer 17:06, 18 July 2012 (UTC)
Any Added by Dawnguard?
Were there any marriable characters added by the Dawnguard DLC? ---Gamer3427 19:50, 2 July 2012 (UTC)
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- Not to my knowledge but the quest called "the gift" allows you to turn your spouse into a vampire. Mr.Scryer. 19:56, 2 July 2012 (UTC)
Muiri
It should be added you have to do the bonus in the DB quest to be able to marry her
- I took the liberty of doing that for you. Have a good one! --SlyKhajiit 03:59, 3 July 2012 (UTC)
Spouses Schedules
When you move your spouse into your home they don't keep to there daily routines and open a store. If you move into there home they got on with there routines. But if you move a spouse into your home which is in there normal city, do they leave your house and get on with life or do they just sit indoors all the time like an agraphobic anyway? --SamGhadiali 22:40, 4 July 2012 (UTC)
Spouses don't have a routine script where they tour the city, I suppose it be complicated due to the number of spouses and houses. If you want them to keep up the appearance of a normal life you'll have to stik to the house they own. --Vukodlak 02:41, 6 July 2012 (UTC)
Vampire Spouse
Has anyone tried wabbajacking the newly made vampire spouse to see if that applies the vampire abilities in the same way it was used to fix follower stats?--Vukodlak 09:05, 16 July 2012 (UTC)
Remarry
So I don't want to be married to Ysolda anymore, because she was the first person to say ANYTHING about the amulet of Mara, and i just want to actually be married to a guy, so how do i change it on the Xbox 360??? — Unsigned comment by 72.175.93.80 (talk) at 22:35 on 23 July 2012
- This is not possible on Xbox 360 or PS3, only on PC via the use of console commands. You can kill Ysolda (if she's not essential), so that would end your marriage, but you cannot then remarry. Vely►t►e 21:38, 23 July 2012 (UTC)
- Well that sucks! i only married her for the achievement and should have looked other people up firstDyllan davis 21:43, 23 July 2012 (UTC)
Moving Houses After Marriage
My silly husband, Derkeethus, is never at home for me to ask him myself. After, say, telling him to move into Whiterun with you, can you later decide to move the couple to Solitude? Also, is it possible to later move into the spouse's house if applicable? Breezehome can get rather dull. 173.20.36.179 16:24, 25 July 2012 (UTC)
From what I know you can get engaged to more than one NPC at a time.
I did a test to understand Marriage. I did the quest/favor for Ysolda and Uthgerd the Unbroken. Then I bought an Amulet Of Mara and first asked Ysolda to marry me then did not go to the Riften but instead went to Uthgerd the Unbroken and asked her to marry me. Then I went to Riften and set up the wedding. It turns out that I married Uthgerd the Unbroken and Ysolda did show up as a guest and did not seem mad that I cheated on her.
Lydia's Property
Doesn't Lydia own a bed in Breezehome? Because the House article say so, and the bed on the small bedroom of Breezehome is marked as "owned" for me.
- Yes,she owns a bed in Breezhome,which you are not able to sleep in,without the use of console commands.--Skyrimplayer 14:05, 1 August 2012 (UTC)
- So, why is the Wife's Property table empty on Lydia? — Unsigned comment by 201.37.202.162 (talk) at 14:16 on 1 August 2012
- I believe it is because she does not own anything before Breezhome is purchased.She does not actually have a house like other NPcs.For example:Ysolda already owns Ysolda's House in Whiterun.Without the player doing anything.And Lydia does'nt even exist until you complete Dragon Rising.--Skyrimplayer 14:21, 1 August 2012 (UTC)
- Oh look!ABCface just added Lydia's property as a bed in Breezhome.Good work ABCface!--Skyrimplayer 14:24, 1 August 2012 (UTC)
- I believe it is because she does not own anything before Breezhome is purchased.She does not actually have a house like other NPcs.For example:Ysolda already owns Ysolda's House in Whiterun.Without the player doing anything.And Lydia does'nt even exist until you complete Dragon Rising.--Skyrimplayer 14:21, 1 August 2012 (UTC)
- So, why is the Wife's Property table empty on Lydia? — Unsigned comment by 201.37.202.162 (talk) at 14:16 on 1 August 2012
Khajiit Can Be Married
There is a Kahjiit that can be married, on the xbox I found one out side of Riften... the caravan protectors... why does everyone always assume the posts are always correct... go look for your self. I did however notice that the amulet doesn't do crap until you visit the temple and talk to the guy... after that, npc's notice you. — Unsigned comment by 75.81.7.239 (talk) at 21:43 on 27 August 2012
- NPCs who can be married are part of the PotentialMarriageFaction, which does not include any Khajiit. You list no details about your instance of a marriageable Kjahiit, not their name or whether or not you actually married them. As for the amulet not working to trigger the marriage dialogue until after speaking with Maramel, that information is already on the relevant articles. ABCface◥ 22:09, 27 August 2012 (UTC)
- I can confirm on XBOX that NONE of the caravan Khajit are able to be married. Kharjo at Riften/Dawnstar is a follower ONLY! Lord Eydvar Talk | Contribs 18:30, 3 September 2012 (EDT)
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